This post was supposed to be about my boyfriend, since I do not have one (nor do I want one anytime soon) I will be writing about my ideal boyfriend. :-)
These qualities that I want in a man are not in any kind of order of importance, they are just in the order my mind thinks at this time.
For physical looks I want someone taller than I am. Preferably over 6 feet tall! I also like guys that have a nice body. This does not mean they have to work out all the time or be super fit. I just want someone at least toned. I like a guy with big arms! I like to know when he holds me that I am safe in his arms. Plus, its just a huge turn on for me. As to hair, I have no preference to color or length, just that it is clean and tidy and not longer than mine. Facial hair is not my favorite thing, I don't really care for it all that much but depending on the guy I might like it. Back hair and chest hair are an absolute no, its nasty and that really needs to go! I also do not discriminate about skin color, if I am interested, I will give it a shot no matter your ethnic background.
As to personality: He must be funny, all girls love a guy that can make them laugh. He must be honest, respectful, trustworthy, caring, compasionate, loyal and hardworking (no one likes a lazy man). I love sacrasim so he must be able to take it and I don't care if he can dish it either. I want someone that can laugh at himself. I want someone who is spontaneous and fun but also knows how to relax and focus or plan things out when needed. I need someone who is not afraid to introduce me to his friends and family and acts the same way toward me when they are around as when they aren't around.
Other things that are important or a must: He must be educated, no ifs ands or buts about it. He must understand how serious I will take my job as an educator. He must love children. He should be an AL fan, I seriously don't know if I could love an AU fan because fall would be hell otherwise. He cannot be a serious smoker or dipper (nasty). I want someone who can be with me and have fun but at the same time knows how to give me my space. He must respect my family and their values even if he doesn't always agree. He must believe in God. He doesn't have to be perfect. He must support me in whatever I want to try. Must be willing to compromise.
Tuesday, August 31, 2010
Monday, August 30, 2010
My BestFriends
Over the years I have had several people who I considered best friends at the time. These people will remain unnamed, but along the way I realized they were not the best of friends or the best of people. Over the last 3 years I have found some pretty amazing friends that I love and can count on always so heres to them:
Jared - Thanks for always being there for me. You have been someone I could go to no matter what. Even though we do not hang out as much anymore we can still randomly hang out and catch up and it feels like we were never apart. I have truely appreciated your friendship and I know we will continue to be able to stay in touch no matter where the future takes us.
Brittany M. - I know we have known each other for almost our entier lives but it took us a long time to be the friends we are today. I can still remember when there were points in our lives that we didn't even like each other! But we finally found some common ground. I don't know how it happened, I honestly think we both just grew up! But I do know that I am thankfull that it did happen. And yes, college life has taken us apart but we are the kind of friends that don't have to tell each other every detail or even see each other regularly to know we can count on one another. I have made a life long friend out of someone I barely got along with!
Lolly - It is so funny to think of how we met and the past we share. We were close as kids, grew apart for reasons out of our control and then fate (or should I say Facebook!) brought us back together. We have silly memories of us as kids and some really good ones of us in more recent years! I know we have drifted some since I moved away but I know I can always count on you! Just wait til I graduate and move back to Birmingham, we will be unseperatable again!
Leah - When I think of the day I met you it cracks me up "Do you have a pen I can borrow?" HAHA. Who would have known a friendship thats ready for a life time would have happened over a pen?! But I know you were put in my life for a reason! We have been through so much together, so many laughs and tears have been shed since we met! You will be one of those friends I will never let out of my life! I will cry when you graduate and have to leave me! I will be there for every important day in your future from your college graduation, to your wedding day, to the day you have kids, to the day your grandchildren are born! You are my friend for life and I love you girl!
Lacee - I have found my long lost sister in you! God knew what he was doing when he placed us in seperate families because no one could have handled us growing up together! You are my crazy partner in crime, I know that if I am ever sitting in a jail cell for doing something stupid I won't be able to call you because you will be sitting right beside me. And the sad thing is if it ever really happened we will probably dying laughing at whatever it was that got us put there! And probably trying to flirt our way out of the situation! We might not have been friends for very long but we are friends until we die. One day we will tell our children and grandchildren together about the crazy mess we got into back in the day like motorcyles, blue reflector, rolling up to my house at 6:15am from being out ALL night several times and so many more to come! We will always be there for each other and always be kick ass together! I love you sister!
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Jared - Thanks for always being there for me. You have been someone I could go to no matter what. Even though we do not hang out as much anymore we can still randomly hang out and catch up and it feels like we were never apart. I have truely appreciated your friendship and I know we will continue to be able to stay in touch no matter where the future takes us.
Brittany M. - I know we have known each other for almost our entier lives but it took us a long time to be the friends we are today. I can still remember when there were points in our lives that we didn't even like each other! But we finally found some common ground. I don't know how it happened, I honestly think we both just grew up! But I do know that I am thankfull that it did happen. And yes, college life has taken us apart but we are the kind of friends that don't have to tell each other every detail or even see each other regularly to know we can count on one another. I have made a life long friend out of someone I barely got along with!
Lolly - It is so funny to think of how we met and the past we share. We were close as kids, grew apart for reasons out of our control and then fate (or should I say Facebook!) brought us back together. We have silly memories of us as kids and some really good ones of us in more recent years! I know we have drifted some since I moved away but I know I can always count on you! Just wait til I graduate and move back to Birmingham, we will be unseperatable again!
Leah - When I think of the day I met you it cracks me up "Do you have a pen I can borrow?" HAHA. Who would have known a friendship thats ready for a life time would have happened over a pen?! But I know you were put in my life for a reason! We have been through so much together, so many laughs and tears have been shed since we met! You will be one of those friends I will never let out of my life! I will cry when you graduate and have to leave me! I will be there for every important day in your future from your college graduation, to your wedding day, to the day you have kids, to the day your grandchildren are born! You are my friend for life and I love you girl!
Lacee - I have found my long lost sister in you! God knew what he was doing when he placed us in seperate families because no one could have handled us growing up together! You are my crazy partner in crime, I know that if I am ever sitting in a jail cell for doing something stupid I won't be able to call you because you will be sitting right beside me. And the sad thing is if it ever really happened we will probably dying laughing at whatever it was that got us put there! And probably trying to flirt our way out of the situation! We might not have been friends for very long but we are friends until we die. One day we will tell our children and grandchildren together about the crazy mess we got into back in the day like motorcyles, blue reflector, rolling up to my house at 6:15am from being out ALL night several times and so many more to come! We will always be there for each other and always be kick ass together! I love you sister!
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Something I Am Going To Do.....
So basically the idea is to write something to or about each topic everyday for 30 days. I seriously doubt I will get to it everyday so I'm changing it to every entry for the next 30 entries!
Entry 1-Your bestfriends.
Entry 2-Your boyfriend.
Entry 3-Your parents.
Entry 4-Your sibling.
Entry 5-Your dreams.
Entry 6-Your ex boyfriend/love/ crush.
Entry 7-A new friend.
Entry 8-Your first love.
Entry 9-A song that got you through your hardest times.
Entry 10-Someone you dont talk to as much as you like.
Entry 11-A deceased person you wish you could talk to.
Entry 12-The person you hate the most/ has caused you the most pain.
Entry 13-Someone you wish would forgive you.
Entry 14-Someone you've drifted away from.
Entry 15-The person you miss the most.
Entry 16-Someone thats not in your state/country.
Entry 17-Someone from your childhood.
Entry 18-The person that you wish you could be.
Entry 19-Someone that pesters your mind-good or bad.
Entry 20-The one that broke your heart the hardest.
Entry 21-Someone you judged by their first impression.
Entry 22-Someone you want to give a second chance to.
Entry 23-The last person you kissed.
Entry 24-The person that gave you your favorite memory.
Entry 25-The person you know that is going through the worst of times.
Entry 26-The last person you made a pinky promise to.
Entry 27-The friendliest person you knew for one day.
Entry 28-Someone that changed your life.
Entry 29- The person you want to tell everything to, but are too afraid.
Entry 30- Your refletcion in the mirror.
Some of these might be adjusted but I will try to stay as close to the original topic. Also most of the names will probably be used but occasionally I might need/want to use only the first initial of someone's name or just make up a name. I dont want to hurt anyone but I will not lie in this and will tell everything to the best of my memory! I hope to be a better person by the end of these 30 entries!
Entry 1-Your bestfriends.
Entry 2-Your boyfriend.
Entry 3-Your parents.
Entry 4-Your sibling.
Entry 5-Your dreams.
Entry 6-Your ex boyfriend/love/ crush.
Entry 7-A new friend.
Entry 8-Your first love.
Entry 9-A song that got you through your hardest times.
Entry 10-Someone you dont talk to as much as you like.
Entry 11-A deceased person you wish you could talk to.
Entry 12-The person you hate the most/ has caused you the most pain.
Entry 13-Someone you wish would forgive you.
Entry 14-Someone you've drifted away from.
Entry 15-The person you miss the most.
Entry 16-Someone thats not in your state/country.
Entry 17-Someone from your childhood.
Entry 18-The person that you wish you could be.
Entry 19-Someone that pesters your mind-good or bad.
Entry 20-The one that broke your heart the hardest.
Entry 21-Someone you judged by their first impression.
Entry 22-Someone you want to give a second chance to.
Entry 23-The last person you kissed.
Entry 24-The person that gave you your favorite memory.
Entry 25-The person you know that is going through the worst of times.
Entry 26-The last person you made a pinky promise to.
Entry 27-The friendliest person you knew for one day.
Entry 28-Someone that changed your life.
Entry 29- The person you want to tell everything to, but are too afraid.
Entry 30- Your refletcion in the mirror.
Some of these might be adjusted but I will try to stay as close to the original topic. Also most of the names will probably be used but occasionally I might need/want to use only the first initial of someone's name or just make up a name. I dont want to hurt anyone but I will not lie in this and will tell everything to the best of my memory! I hope to be a better person by the end of these 30 entries!
Thursday, August 19, 2010
School Is Back In Full Swing
My life again has a normal schedule, somewhat at least. Classes have been in session a week now and it already has me stressed and crazy and losing sleep! I have entirely too many classes, I really should chill out and take it easy one semester but that can't happen if I want to graduate on time, which I do, therefore MY LIFE = INSANITY! Microcomputers in Education is the first education class that I've had that I feel I am learning something that will actually benefit me in the classroom! Shakespeare is not what I was thinking it would be and neither is the professor (this is great news because I was affraid of this course)! Modern Novel is exactly what I thought it would be, I absolutely love this class! Advanced Grammar is also what I imagined, which is my hell on Earth; it will be the death of me this semester! Theory and Practice of Composition doesn't seem quite as awful as I thought but there will be a lot of work and from the look of my schedule I DON'T HAVE TIME!
I would like to petition whomever neccessary to add more hours to the day! I never seem to get enough sleep or never seem to have enought time for my job (that is to make money, I hate my job at the grocery store and would gladly leave if I were rich so therefore I work the minimum number of hours to get by) or never seem to have enough time to get my work done or never seem to have time to have a life!! Something has to give and since I'm not willing to give up any of these things time MUST be added to the day and extend it so all of my activities fit and can be accomplished!
I know it is not possible to do this but its a nice idea. But in reality no matter how many hours there were in a day, we as humans, would work as hard as possible to overfill them so that no matter what the "I have no time" excuse would still exist!
I would like to petition whomever neccessary to add more hours to the day! I never seem to get enough sleep or never seem to have enought time for my job (that is to make money, I hate my job at the grocery store and would gladly leave if I were rich so therefore I work the minimum number of hours to get by) or never seem to have enough time to get my work done or never seem to have time to have a life!! Something has to give and since I'm not willing to give up any of these things time MUST be added to the day and extend it so all of my activities fit and can be accomplished!
I know it is not possible to do this but its a nice idea. But in reality no matter how many hours there were in a day, we as humans, would work as hard as possible to overfill them so that no matter what the "I have no time" excuse would still exist!
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