My Ideal Boyfriend

This post was supposed to be about my boyfriend, since I do not have one (nor do I want one anytime soon) I will be writing about my ideal boyfriend. :-)

These qualities that I want in a man are not in any kind of order of importance, they are just in the order my mind thinks at this time.

For physical looks I want someone taller than I am. Preferably over 6 feet tall! I also like guys that have a nice body. This does not mean they have to work out all the time or be super fit. I just want someone at least toned. I like a guy with big arms! I like to know when he holds me that I am safe in his arms. Plus, its just a huge turn on for me. As to hair, I have no preference to color or length, just that it is clean and tidy and not longer than mine. Facial hair is not my favorite thing, I don't really care for it all that much but depending on the guy I might like it. Back hair and chest hair are an absolute no, its nasty and that really needs to go! I also do not discriminate about skin color, if I am interested, I will give it a shot no matter your ethnic background.

As to personality: He must be funny, all girls love a guy that can make them laugh. He must be honest, respectful, trustworthy, caring, compasionate, loyal and hardworking (no one likes a lazy man). I love sacrasim so he must be able to take it and I don't care if he can dish it either. I want someone that can laugh at himself. I want someone who is spontaneous and fun but also knows how to relax and focus or plan things out when needed. I need someone who is not afraid to introduce me to his friends and family and acts the same way toward me when they are around as when they aren't around.

Other things that are important or a must: He must be educated, no ifs ands or buts about it. He must understand how serious I will take my job as an educator. He must love children. He should be an AL fan, I seriously don't know if I could love an AU fan because fall would be hell otherwise. He cannot be a serious smoker or dipper (nasty). I want someone who can be with me and have fun but at the same time knows how to give me my space. He must respect my family and their values even if he doesn't always agree. He must believe in God. He doesn't have to be perfect. He must support me in whatever I want to try. Must be willing to compromise.